Conflict is a natural part of learning and growing. Whether with infants, toddlers, or preschoolers, every moment is a chance to build emotional awareness and problem-solving skills.
Infants & Toddlers
✔️ Stay calm and let them know conflict is okay
✔️ Name feelings and talk them through it
✔️ Model facial expressions to show empathy
✔️ Use simple words or signs like “mine” or “please”
✔️ Redirect gently when needed
✔️ Teach problem-solving by holding the object and guiding solutions
Preschoolers
✔️ Stay calm and use a soft voice
✔️ Listen to all sides before jumping in
✔️ Encourage them to think of solutions
✔️ Use pretend play to explore problem-solving
✔️ Integrate skills into daily curriculum
✔️ Create spaces like peace tables or “be by myself” areas
Let’s raise kind, capable problem-solvers – one moment at a time.
Author: Ashton K. Gauthier